Source; Padraig Martin@PadraigMartin
Every one of my girls have had "the talk" with me. The detailed sex talk is something that is best left to their mother. My talk with them is more about protecting who they want to be. The conversation is simple and straightforward with three key themes: do not feel pressured to do anything you do not want to do - wait till marriage; never place yourself in a position whereby saying "no" requires a physical fight; before you do something, think about the consequences if everyone on the internet could see it. I do not know if it is helpful, but as a father, it is my obligation to instill reality. One fact that has reared its ugly head are the expectations of boys regarding girls in the 21st Century.
Many young men are rightfully dejected regarding the state of young women. If you base your opinion of women on Facebook Reels and Tik Tok videos, how could you not be? After all, the general image portrayed about twenty-to-thirty-year-old females is one of sexual lasciviousness and outlandish promiscuity. A key contributor to this is the online porn industry.
The unrealistic sexual exploits of women in porn imprints a vision upon young men exposed to perverse fantasies. This leads to expectations by both genders: girls who believe they have to do "X" to please a boy; boys who believe girls want to do "X" because it was trending on PornHub. Thus, we now live in an era dominated by a "Girl Whore" culture. There are a multitude of reasons as to why, but one clear impact. It is destroying our male-female relationship dynamic.
From the beginning of time, girls have both attracted boys and conflicted with an inherent rebel streak. That is not new. What is new is the proliferation of expectations set by porn stars and social media influencers. Girls will always want to attract boys and if they think that boys are attracted to whores, girls will be whores. Correspondingly, young men are easily persuaded by the wrong thinking appendage. If a girl is a whore, who am I - young male - to stop her from achieving her objective? It is a poisoned circular logic.
Of course, not all men or women are this way, In fact, despite outward appearances, most young women are not whores. They may act stupidly in their youth, but for the most part, girls are still girls. They like to bake cookies, watch dramatic movies, and giggle. There is a reason the Hallmark Channel does so well. Are they interested in sex? Sure. Most young people are. Are they willing to do the depraved acts depicted online? Not at all. But you cannot blame young men for being confused by their misguided assumptions.
The proliferation of online sexual perversity is coupled with the "Girl Power" dynamic that has likely contributed to more rapes and/or deaths of many young women then we will ever know. Many female victims sincerely believed they could "take care of themselves" and beat up a male assailant simply because the movies told them that their kick boxing class was sufficient. No, women are not as tough as men. Physiology is immutable and that is currently being proven throughout women's sports with the proliferation of degenerate psychopaths who believe gender is a fluid concept (it is not). In addition to the Girl Power belief that females can beat up males in a fight, there is an associated belief that females can be just as promiscuous as men with the same lack of consequences. That is simply false.
The reality for a promiscuous male is that he is likely to catch an STD if he is not careful and possibly a child support bill. Otherwise, he generally walks away, possibly with an elevated reputation among certain circles. The reality for a promiscuous female is that she is also likely to catch an STD and the actual child. Her reputation is simply not likely to come out as favorable - especially if she is a single mom. Rather, she becomes an easy mark for the next horny male. Worse, is the murder that might result from this childish belief in equality. One of the key reasons that abortion is so popular in the modern era is that it is a means to eliminate the consequences of bad decisions by females. Terminating a life has become the default option for girls who spread their legs with abandon.
The Girl-Whore Era is a combination of multiple societal factors that have been purposely designed to exploit young sexual urges that have always existed but have never been so easily manipulated. Girls have been entrapped by a combination of expectations and a desire to attract males that have been driven by outside influencers who are purely evil. Boys have been driven into camps - whereby a small few are able to hunt a wide pack of promiscuous girls, while the vast majority of young men wonder if they will ever find a "good girl." The result is that the good girls never meet the good guys - and humanity suffers.
I believe that is entirely by design. Satan hates life and life is the result of healthy male-female relations. Correspondingly, the Devil's children are at the helm of the vast majority of this perverse destruction. If you wonder who the Devil's children are, I direct you to the words of Jesus Christ found in John 8: 35-45.
Many young men are rightfully dejected regarding the state of young women. If you base your opinion of women on Facebook Reels and Tik Tok videos, how could you not be? After all, the general image portrayed about twenty-to-thirty-year-old females is one of sexual lasciviousness and outlandish promiscuity. A key contributor to this is the online porn industry.
The unrealistic sexual exploits of women in porn imprints a vision upon young men exposed to perverse fantasies. This leads to expectations by both genders: girls who believe they have to do "X" to please a boy; boys who believe girls want to do "X" because it was trending on PornHub. Thus, we now live in an era dominated by a "Girl Whore" culture. There are a multitude of reasons as to why, but one clear impact. It is destroying our male-female relationship dynamic.
From the beginning of time, girls have both attracted boys and conflicted with an inherent rebel streak. That is not new. What is new is the proliferation of expectations set by porn stars and social media influencers. Girls will always want to attract boys and if they think that boys are attracted to whores, girls will be whores. Correspondingly, young men are easily persuaded by the wrong thinking appendage. If a girl is a whore, who am I - young male - to stop her from achieving her objective? It is a poisoned circular logic.
Of course, not all men or women are this way, In fact, despite outward appearances, most young women are not whores. They may act stupidly in their youth, but for the most part, girls are still girls. They like to bake cookies, watch dramatic movies, and giggle. There is a reason the Hallmark Channel does so well. Are they interested in sex? Sure. Most young people are. Are they willing to do the depraved acts depicted online? Not at all. But you cannot blame young men for being confused by their misguided assumptions.
The proliferation of online sexual perversity is coupled with the "Girl Power" dynamic that has likely contributed to more rapes and/or deaths of many young women then we will ever know. Many female victims sincerely believed they could "take care of themselves" and beat up a male assailant simply because the movies told them that their kick boxing class was sufficient. No, women are not as tough as men. Physiology is immutable and that is currently being proven throughout women's sports with the proliferation of degenerate psychopaths who believe gender is a fluid concept (it is not). In addition to the Girl Power belief that females can beat up males in a fight, there is an associated belief that females can be just as promiscuous as men with the same lack of consequences. That is simply false.
The reality for a promiscuous male is that he is likely to catch an STD if he is not careful and possibly a child support bill. Otherwise, he generally walks away, possibly with an elevated reputation among certain circles. The reality for a promiscuous female is that she is also likely to catch an STD and the actual child. Her reputation is simply not likely to come out as favorable - especially if she is a single mom. Rather, she becomes an easy mark for the next horny male. Worse, is the murder that might result from this childish belief in equality. One of the key reasons that abortion is so popular in the modern era is that it is a means to eliminate the consequences of bad decisions by females. Terminating a life has become the default option for girls who spread their legs with abandon.
The Girl-Whore Era is a combination of multiple societal factors that have been purposely designed to exploit young sexual urges that have always existed but have never been so easily manipulated. Girls have been entrapped by a combination of expectations and a desire to attract males that have been driven by outside influencers who are purely evil. Boys have been driven into camps - whereby a small few are able to hunt a wide pack of promiscuous girls, while the vast majority of young men wonder if they will ever find a "good girl." The result is that the good girls never meet the good guys - and humanity suffers.
I believe that is entirely by design. Satan hates life and life is the result of healthy male-female relations. Correspondingly, the Devil's children are at the helm of the vast majority of this perverse destruction. If you wonder who the Devil's children are, I direct you to the words of Jesus Christ found in John 8: 35-45.
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Absolutely excellent post. I will add that the advertising that is so rampant always displays huge breasts, etc., etc., and thus diminishes any healthy view of women and girls. The Library associations purchase books that take sexual content way too far. Parents are not doing enough to disengage from digital media, video games, and to celebrate family. And yes, this is why the Bible needs to be taught again in schools, along with the other components of a classical 'liberal' education. And considering that we brought this curse upon ourselves, major repenting is and has been due.
This is a great and important post as a reminder for us all what we already know......but crucial to revisit! You did a great job, obviously thinking like a man.......but the father of daughter! Thank you, I'll send this to my som who is on his own raising little girls who are now entering the dangerous, confusing teens.
Yes, this is a subject that has become taboo! The Progressives have taken 'My Body - My Choice' to a level a Female has to prove their rights by open sexual activity and abortion. While males have been branded as toxic so they have to become feminized to be accepted as normal. This is what happens when the Bible is taken out of the schools, homes and lives.