It's quiet amusing that folks will assume things if one forget's to log on via the tea party page, frankly it just made me fall out of my chair...Yes I'm aware that birth control is used to prevent an egg and sperm from coming together to form a human...It was funny due to how condescending (forgot who it was not important) came off as...Actually I'm on lo dose birth control myself for other medical reasons and do not agree for myself personally with the use of IUD's (I think that's what they are called?) and The Morning After Pill...Plan B eh no thanks...Now it's over the counter?! Uh what?!

First of all regardless of the moral aspects of that, health wise it's dangerous due to the high amounts of birth control in the pill. It can cause internal bleeding in younger gals, not to mention there isn't an age restriction for it any longer? What? I get not wanting folks to know really I do; because I attended a program called Mercy Ministries for the self injury I used to struggle with, and I spoke with some young women who had taken that pill and had complications afterwards not to mention the spiritual complexities of guilt etc.

The answer really for myself has been my unshakable faith, and facing the things struggled with as well as not avoiding them...The culture of avoidance has gotten many where they are now, and baby steps in a positive direction add up even over a months time...The culture of what's good for you is not good for me and it's all relative has frankly got to stop if any lasting change is to be had...

I spoke of this in an earlier blog post, change comes from first the individual then a group of folks of like mind, not the other way around...

Feel free to post your thoughts below, Thanks for reading :)

So, I painted over my speakers and web cam with silver paint it looks unique, bought my own web cam with a built in speaker so I choose when it's hooked up...Granted I know that when it is someone is watching but hey some security is better then none...Also a few good programs for one's computer to add more anonymity are the following

peer block 

privoxy

Private Internet Access (Paid Subscription) At seven dollars a month this is way worth it, though there might be better VPN's out there aside from building one's own this VPN is the best as far as price and value and the speed is pretty good.(VPN is a Virtual Private Network) I will say that this program dose not have port forwarding and that is pretty much the only complaint I have about this program. I recommend connecting to the swiss connection for the most security if you do decide to get this.

If anyone else has any ideas they would like to add about anonymity please feel free to add your suggestions in the comments below. Thanks again. 

It's really sad it has come to deciding who lives and who dies...who are we as humans to decide who lives and dies? I'm sorry but the lack of four thought in this article and the bickering below is just trackless and easier to judge others behind the anonymity of one's computer screen on both sides of this 'issue' it's a non issue to myself life is life and death is death who are we to say who lives or who dies...My sisters little boy was born and man it was a joy to hold him and be made an aunt, she's a gem of a sister I'm proud of and married to the most loving husband I could hope for her...

Funny how God takes ashes and makes beautiful things out of them, and it breaks my heart because I wish others could see the trans-formative power of this...

Example: I am a graduate of mercy ministries and no longer self mutilate going on now two years (woot) with practical steps to get to the root issues and trudging through the mountain for seven months to come out the other side I am not ashamed of the healing that I have nor of the scars I bear because they are a story of grace and my own beauty for ashes story...Everyone is precious, I just wish they could see as much...

This was my response to the following article: 

http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/03/hobby-lobby-supreme-court-obamacare

My Response Link